It’s true. You are on your own. You are an independent being that is just as free to make choices as everyone else. You are unique, unique, unique.
The only thing that is different about you is that you have no idea why you’re on your own in the first place. As we all go through life, we’re often looking for someone to “tell us the truth,” but this is not your truth. Your truth is the truth about who you are and how you got here.
The truth is all about you. You can’t blame anyone else for what you do, how you act, or how you feel. You can’t even blame yourself for what you don’t do. You can only blame yourself for blaming everything else.
It’s like when you look at your childhood, it’s all about you. You can’t blame your parents, your grandparents, your relatives, your friends, your teachers, or your family members. How you act, how you think, how you react, who you relate to, and how you respond to various issues in your life are all about you. The only thing that is different about you is the choices you make.
The problem with blaming everything else is that you create yourself as a victim, which is just as bad as blaming yourself (and it all comes down to the same thing). By blaming everything else you deny yourself the ability to actually change your life, and as a result you can become angry, bitter, angry, and ultimately a very difficult person to live with. I recommend you read a book called “The Power of Now” by Eckhart Tolle.
If you look at the actions that cause most of your problems, it generally comes down to two things. If you work for someone you can’t trust, you can get a lot of things wrong. If your friends are always telling you what to do, you can get a lot of things wrong. If you’re always trying to do something you don’t want to do, you can get a lot of things wrong.
And that is certainly true. I have a lot of friends I can say no to and friends that I cant say no to. Sometimes I’m really angry at my friends for not doing what I want to do, and sometimes I’m just really angry at myself for not having been on my own before.
I guess I am the type of person who has very little social life. I’m good at talking, but I dont get any interaction with the opposite sex. I’m pretty socially awkward, but I dont have any friends. I’m a bit of a loner, but I dont have any friends.
This is by no means a complete list of the ways in which you could be a loner. Some of those ways are pretty bad, and I would say that are pretty common. So I’m going to pick out my own.
One thing that’s certain about being a loner is that you probably spend a lot of time alone. You probably do a lot of reading, you probably do a lot of talking to people, you probably do a lot of socializing. You probably do a lot of these things all by yourself.
