A great way to not accept an apology is to say “No” and walk away. Why? Because as soon as you say “No” to someone, you get in their face and refuse to say anything else. You know the rest.
If you want to not be in a relationship with someone, for whatever reason, you can simply walk away. They’ll just stop trying to get you back. Many people who are in a relationship with someone who says No to them find themselves back at square one.
Most people would agree that walking away is a way to avoid an apology, but when you’re in a relationship with someone who says No, it’s actually kind of a good way to start. A No from any of your loved ones is a sign that they don’t respect you, and if they’re serious, they probably won’t be back.
To avoid the No, you have to give them something to return the No, which is basically giving them an apology, and in many cases, that means you have to go. No is a common trigger for those who need to talk to someone, but it is also something that can be used by a partner in a relationship who simply needs to say to you, “Hey, I’m sorry youre mad at me. I didn’t have a good day yesterday.
You are the person who really needs to apologize to someone, but you don’t. You need to say, “Hey, Im sorry youre mad at me. I didnt have a good day yesterday.” If you have your relationship with your partner in good shape, then you should be able to make that clear.
That was the first thing that came to mind when I read my blog post about this subject. The second thing I thought of is: You need to know that youre not on your phone all the time, or at least the phone company is not on your side. You need to be able to clearly say that you need to talk to someone. No one is going to come up to you afterwards and say, Hey, Im sorry youre mad at me.
There are a couple of things that you need to know before you can make that request. First, you need to ask permission before you call anyone. That is not how a phone call works. You call someone (or you call someone and your phone goes to voicemail), then you say, “Hey, I need to talk to someone about something.” You don’t say, “Hey, Im sorry youre mad at me.
What you really need to do is just say, Im sorry, I need to talk to someone. People may not always pick up at that point, but they will respond. If you do not ask permission, they will not respond to you at all. If you do not call them a few days later, they will not call back.
If you need to say something to someone, just say it. You wont have to explain everything, but it is better to give them the information than to explain everything and then get yelled at. The people who have been yelling at me for the last month have not apologized, but I can tell you that I have never felt so insulted in my life.